Or,  is it the blind fear misguides the policy maker in false ideology that cripples, creating structures to live by that are dysfunctional.? Organizations stand to deliver, deliver to themselves, shutting the door on those that they are suppose to deliver to.
Perhaps that answers the question of why there is such global unrest, insecurity, confusion, the bubble of blind fear is the element of greed, corruption of many coloured overcoats of disguise that donations becomes like a summer stream: just a trickle.
The saying ‘walk a mile in another mans’ shoes’ seems more important today. As the earthly world changes so mankind requires deep new thought stepping into this new century. Mankind’s’ history demonstrates those that have will fall, as those that have not will rise through war or revolution is that the future of mankind?

The future children are not made of stone.

[/youtube] when to say NO  and change.

The psychotherapist is then the masseur of the two? In modern terms how does one divide what the role of the psychiatrists does… to that of the psychologist or the psychotherapist.. when without the brain
and the electrical interaction between the matter and chemicals the emotion or ‘feelings’ would not exists. Therefore the psychology of the human being must be interrelated/interconnected with the psychiatric workings of the human being and vice versa. I think, I feel, therefore I am.

Can the two be divided, if so is the division by way of the psychiatric workings,for example throw sticky hot coffee into your lap-top the electrical impulses go hay-wire,therefore its’ behavior changes for what is expected to be the normal response to your physical input tapping on the keys.

The human brain chemical make-up goes hay-wire or: is altered for what ever reason, therefore the behavior changes for what is the expected normal response to the tapping/input of the world outside the emotions/behavior of the psychological side also changes.

What would the answer be? In the term of the measure of human existence: the three mentioned professions are a new science which this question seems yet to be answered?

Discover the answer ” Feel the fear and do it anyway” http://thesydneypsychologist.com/blog/

Household NZ

but thanks

I’d rather a wife!!!,

Self esteem plays a crucial part in a human beings life. Like the hub to a wheel on a bicycle, holding the spokes to the rim allowing the wheel to turn effortlessly.

As the wheels of life turn and distance in life gained, if flowing with ease a sense of competence, achievement is reached. Self – respect is developed and the most stable source of self-esteem is genuine accomplishment rather than public acclaim and praise.

The public arena is like a court of law, what you think and feel is irrelevant, the fact is….

News stands, shops, the local petrol station are swamped with magazines portraying beautiful woman, beautiful men with beautiful clothes a flawless representation of human beings. Media advertising bombard the human mind of how to aspire to being a reflection of the magazines glossy pictures. The intention is to display excellence in design, quality, the achievements of the designers and artisans. Is it you?

It is like a split personality of information, some react with diminishing self esteem not being able to be like the picture on the glossy page, or use cosmetics that would alter their appearance to what is supposed to ‘ beautify” and a social expectation.

Or those by ways and means can, those being  graced by genes are able to do so:  seem not to care: enough is not enough where self esteem in a false manner is achieved by the constant chase and purchase a mixture of  ‘ glossy page items’   an array of  assorted commodities.

Instead of being someone/somebody  -  start being yourself.  What does this mean?

Someone is the psyche in you. What one absorbs and chooses  to adapt into the personality becomes you.

Somebody is the physical representation of those actions.

The expression of “ to be washed clean to restore the self- esteem “ has been used for hundreds of years.

A humble representation of this is the invention in 1885 by two brothers William and James Lever instead of using tallow used palm oil and glycerine to create a wonderful free-lathering soap.

One of which was called Sunlight to bring a sense of satisfaction and achievement of well being to woman doing the household laundry. A bundle of fresh clothes oozing a fragrance of cleanliness .

A bar of Sunlight could be used for multi domestic purposes, later the brothers added Pears for the ultimate bath accessories.

Soap was supplied to soldiers for the same reasons, to give ,when opportunity could be taken, a soldier would bathe, be refreshed, wash away the horror of war, refresh the mind spirit and body to lift the self esteem.

The Lever brothers invented Dove Soap with moisturizing properties to care for the skin especially dry skin the after use leaving a comfortable aroma.

The humble tablet of soap or the special use of choosing Dove soap for a soldier in the field, or for a refreshing wash in the river, off grid shower operated by solar, or in the urban districts to the best hotels in the world, standing naked any-one is someone and some-body.

Stepping from that, it is the focus on the contribution the individual gives to their society or social fabric irrespective of any chosen career path of labour.

Self esteem is you and you matter.

Start with the humble bar of soap and wash away someone and somebody, step naked, refreshed , and start being you.

The fact is you are you and I am I.

I am female: but not a barbie and don’t wear high heels, my best buddies are men, and thanks I’d rather a wife.

Thinking: Hot shower with Dove, a bird on the wing.

Pondering from  thoughts from Hazledine-Barber site:

What does life Mean?

http://poeticalleadership.blogspot.com

A question many ask and indeed search for. What does life mean to you. What is your purpose in life is the question. It has been suggested meaning was once given, handed down by our “elders and betters “. Through the ages so it has, a discipline to give order or governance across all race, colour or creed, people accepted, direction and purpose to the individuals lives their contribution within that structure was the meaning of life.. Picasso painting the agony of Spain. Charles Dickens portraying the real England promoting social change, I could write an endless list the point being the artists expression or the writers, is extensions beyond the self, through the works raising conscious awareness.

As a US President stated “Do not ask your country what it can do for you, ask what can I do for my country” in other words be responsible for yourself.

I have a saying “ABC” Action, Behaviour, Consequences. It is your action that is your behaviour therefore it is your consequence. This can be applied in any situation.

The meaning of life is within you, asking the question. We live in a world of great beauty and wealth for all to share if the conscious awareness is raised by the captains of industry/government the face of the workplace changes, social structure for the betterment of mankind. The key is self responsibility that becomes global responsibility giving the meaning to life.

Live in the question for infinite possibilities, if your attitude changes that is positive then things around you change so is the excitement and thrilling act of being human just being consciously aware.

Once upon a time a gentleman faced a financial crisis of not being able to pay his bills. He began to put them in his desk draw to ignore them. However in the back of his mind a little voice questioned him “What is the right thing to do”?

Prompted to address his situation, on a monthly basis he would reach into the draw and pulled out a bill. Telephone the company he owed the debt to and say “ I will pay your bill today,you are the lucky winner of the draw.” He then telephoned all other debtors and explain there would be another draw at the end of the month and desired that they were the winners.

So it went on, the companies lived in expectation and eventually all were repaid. It was a working relationship in communication and acceptance. For the gentleman repaying his debt it was the right thing to do, and the companies accepted the effort.

Not perhaps the way to do things today, nevertheless the “What is the right thing to do?” Perhaps the answer is in communication, acceptance of what one can do, some weekly contribution until all is paid, or back to the contractual agreement of the original repayment figure.

Is it not better to get some and eventually the whole debt paid, than anger, bitterness and resentment and nothing paid  at all. ?

Pondering

To quote from Brendan Norris ( Business Strategist, Paradigm Shifter) Blog

http://www.brendannorris.com/

“We cannot cram the embryonic world of tomorrow into yesterday’s conventional cubby holes.”

• Alfin Toffler, author of “Future Shock”

End Quote:

In reply Pondering Down Under:

The embryonic ( undeveloped world) of tomorrow is built on the bricks of today from the established knowledge of yesterday as for each days’ question there is an answer,as each answer there is a question.

Therefore the ‘cubby holes’ do not exist as things change. If the world is considered developed today, how can one presume that the tomorrow is undeveloped? And was yesterday a world developed or undeveloped if today is developed. ?

If yesterdays’ world by thinkers of the human race considered their day ‘developed’ of the tomorrow no questions would be asked.

Today the question is: Was yesterday undeveloped if today is developed. And tomorrow developing.?

i the fly

cabbage pots and tins

i visit,

free to fly over tree tops and

razor wire fences,

i buzz the vast bush lands

wings spread,

flying great speeds,

free,

pest to you,

i carry disease that affect me not,

God made me like this,

that is my lot,

i have my uses and break down waste,

eco friendly chap i freely fly,

leaving you sadly

behind razor wire fences,

with cabbage pots and tins.

Written for all people trapped behind razor wire fences, refugee camps,  for those trapped in mind behind razor wired fences with views of a wonderful world. Those that are aware for change and do nothing.

Coping with the overwhelming pace of change, demands of life, the seeking to have work life balance is a cost in time and money. Change is loss and loss is change, does one evaluate before the change the cost of loss?  Or is it the change in ones’ life is a gain and there is never loss? If perceived as loss: question was it yours to have in the beginning.

What if the “overwhelm” is the important barometer or the “gut instinct” (or some call it the sub – consciousness) irritates: is this the signal that tells one, parts of the tapestry in one’s life is not right? Is that the signal for change? The signal to question?

Does one stand alone, or are we all in the global sense inter-connected, by way of work, food, banks, everything we choose in our daily lives is by the labours of others and people one does not know.

Is it that the inter-connection is so intense that the simple task, the grass roots level, is forgotten until a solution to a problem is sought?

What affects you in your daily life may not have been your intention but enters one’s life by contribution of forces you did not intend or invite. Therefore how aware is one, what is the contribution to the world around one to change for the betterment of one’s life: or mankinds for sustainability of life and the global future.

It starts with you and what else is possible?

The act of injustice that clearly cripples the life of a soul, by way of wrongful imprisonment, wrongful incarceration in
New Zealand and is proven the question of compensation arises.

Massive resources are indulged to Crown representatives to quash the victim and their voice. Legal aid is a minefield let alone the efforts of the individual whose life for a normal ability to earn and freely make choices have the constraints of a prison or mental institution cell.

The Confidential Forum for Former In-Patients of Psychiatric Hospitals written by Governor General of New Zealand Judge Anand Satyanand June 2007. Former In-Patients of Psychiatric Hospitals: the recent Not Guilty of the David Bain trial which to date has gripped the country’s interest are they to fade like the beautiful tapestries and military flags in historic buildings and churches in tatters and ruin. Or left on the bench at the station of life?

It seems systemic throughout New Zealand City Councils to Parliament and the MP’s to the Prime Minister the lack of passion and governance like the Emperor with no clothes.

What does or would it take for fair monetary compensation to the victims enabling choice freely a quality of life to afford a place of sanctuary and the freedom to do so.

Have the Crown Representatives and those associated treat their fellow human beings and citizens of

It is a dog’s life to coin the expression, cruelty comes in many colours and cloth; to rob a fellow human being the ability to earn and live demonstrates that the Crown has gone to the dogs.